Had premarital sex

by Abel
( U.K. )

Just found out that the assistant pastor had premarital sex with his wife. What do I do please help.

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Reply to some advice
by: Anonymous

Why would you do anything? Probably the best advice would be to not spread any gossip.

Why do anything?
by: Kelly

Your situation begs a question; why do anything? How was this information brought to your attention? Is it reliable? Is it gossip or hearsay? My advice to you is this; you do nothing. This is not an issue that needs to be addressed. Why do I say this? The answer is that we have all sinned and fallen short of God's glory. None of us are perfect. We have all done things we regret. Fortunately for us, God's grace and mercy covers a multitude of sins, including premarital sex. If the couple is now married, which they apparently are, and have sought God's forgiveness, then leave this between them and God. Recall Jesus' words, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

I pray everyone can move forward and this past sin brings no harm to the congregation.

Peace,

Kelly

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